YES YOU ARE! And yet many of us have spent much of our lives trying to be even more perfect. Fear of being judged, fear of making a mistake... fear.... many of us just hide our truths, our desires because we are so fearful of being 'imperfect.' And yet, imperfect spells 'I'm perfect.'
What is a mistake anyway... something that society has decided is right or wrong. Is it right or wrong or is it just something that did not work out? Sure if we upset somebody or hurt somebody... we know in our hearts it doesn't feel right... so in such cases we need to apologise and make things better or do our best not to hurt in the first place. But really who are any of us to judge what is right or what is wrong. We ALL know in our hearts what brings joy and what brings sadness. Judgement, hate, conflict, fear, control bring the latter.
We all dislike being judged but very happy to judge and because of this we hide our truths and yet if we just wore our truths on our sleeves and were a little more integral we would celebrate our so called imperfections and attract and be surrounded by those that love us for them. When we hide behind our truths and pretend everything is 'perfect' (however we perceive that to be) we confuse our friends, our family... we confuse ourselves and we lose our connection to truth. We fall out of alignment with who we are and what our purpose is... we get entangled in the 'rights' and 'wrongs' that have been imposed upon society that perhaps do not even sit comfortably with our hearts anyway!
The rules and regulations in so many areas of society now and in place in systems are truly stunting humanity's growth. You cannot say anything without f... up, you cannot mess about and have fun in case you get tripped up in a year or so to come... you cannot connect truly with someone in case they wake up one day feeling shit about themselves and decide to take it out on you or someone else rather than owning their own feelings of upset. All this 'desire' to be perfect and do things 'right' has created a society that takes absolutely no responsibility for themselves but one that plays the blame game.. blame and shame someone else and then I don't have to own my feelings of shame, embarrassment, guilt, self loathing etc... but if we continue to pretend everything is perfect, our insides are being eaten alive as everything in our being is shouting out... you are full of bullshit! And we live out of alignment and in struggle, rather than in alignment and in abundance.
The moment we own our feelings, our actions, and take responsibility for our health, our conversations, our actions, we empower ourselves. We step out of the victim story, we step out of 'the desperate search for perfection and being perceived as perfection' and with this the need to be accepted and step into a place where we accept ourselves, we love ourselves and feel empowered to step forward seeing every experience as part of our journey to grow, to evolve, to deepen our connection to where we started from.... embracing our imperfections (as society may see them) and recognising that we were just perfect all along.
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